The Bible does not directly address single mothers, but there are many examples  of God’s gentle interaction with women, mothers, widows and their children.  These examples, and God’s gentleness, apply whether a mother is single or  married or widowed or divorced. God knows each person intimately and knows her  situation completely. The Bible warns that sex outside of marriage is sinful and  dangerous and will bring troubles, one of which is that a woman might have to  raise a child by herself, which is undoubtedly difficult. And if it is her own  sin that has resulted in single motherhood, our gracious God is still just as  willing to bring help and comfort. And what’s better is that He offers  forgiveness for those sins through Jesus Christ and the eternal comfort of  heaven for the mother who accepts Him, the children who accept Him, and even the  estranged husband who accepts Him!

But often a woman finds herself alone  and raising children through no fault of her own. Sadly, women are often  innocent victims of a world wracked by war and terrorism. Husbands go off to war  and never return, selflessly giving their lives for their countries. If a  husband’s death has left a woman single with children, there is no doubt that  God will help and comfort that woman.

God cares about families. But He  is more concerned that each person, no matter what her family looks like,  repenting of sin and coming into a relationship with Him. He wants us to know  Him, because His creatures knowing Him brings us joy and brings Him glory. We  get bound up in the details of our lives, worrying what other people will think  of us and whether the church will accept us and whether we have ruined things  entirely. But God calls the Christian to the joy of being above the weight of  worry. He has said that we should cast all our cares upon Him, for He cares for  us (1 Peter  5:7). He wants to carry the burden and forgive our sins and then forget  about our sins and help us to move on. All He asks us to do is know Him, delight  in Him, and trust Him. Single mothers are often very responsible people, and  sometimes it can be hard to just “set aside” worries and cares. A single mother  might feel guilty just thinking about it! But God commands us to do it anyway,  to spend a little time each day to focus on Him, and trust (during the rest of  the day) that He will provide for us, both physically and emotionally as we lean  on Him.

What this might look like for a single mom is setting aside time  to read the Bible and pray. She might think, “I just don’t have time for that  between working and raising a child and taking care of the house and everything  else.” But if even for half an hour when her child is sleeping or being watched  by a relative or friend, she can set aside time to talk to God in prayer and  listen to His voice in Scripture, even if it means not cleaning that pile of  dishes, she will find His amazing strength and comforting presence will be with  her for the rest of the day. Memorizing verses like “The Lord is my helper, I  will not be afraid. What can man do to me?” (Psalm 118:6)  or “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13) will  help provide tangible reminders of His love and protection when things get tough  or stressful.

So, what does God have to say to single mothers? The same  thing He has to say to everyone else. Repent of sin, trust in Christ for  forgiveness, communicate with God through prayer, listen to His voice through  Scripture, lean on God for strength in trials, and put your hope in the amazing  eternal life with Him that He has planned. “For no eye has seen, no ear has  heard, no mind has conceived the wonderful things that God has prepared for  those that love Him” (1  Corinthians 2:9).

*first posted on altruistico May 06, 2013

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